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7 niceness Lies We Tell Ourselves Every Day

We lie to ourselves. Almost every day. Because we don’t want to face the truth. We don’t dare to face the truth. 

Here are some common lies that we often tell ourselves:

1. I don’t know what to do

This is just an excuse to get out of things. The bigger question is that did you at least start to TRY for the thing? Just give it a whirl.

2. If more time were there, I could have done that

People claim that they want to start their business, get six pack abs, a job in their desired field. But they don’t want it. If they did, they would take time out and commit themselves.

3. If I say this, people will think I’m stupid

No, they won’t because people don’t care if you do ‘that’ thing or not. And, even if they do care, they’re going to be far more concerned about, what you think of them.

4. If I could just get a chance to do ‘X’, my life would be amazing

Pick what your X is: get a job, become a traveller, get married, have a beautiful girlfriend, have money. Obviously, your happiness factor won’t be met because the list of X is very long. People always suffer from mild dissatisfaction. And this approach is not good because by thinking like this, you’re not focussing on the ‘now’ and hence, you have stored your happiness for the time when that X thing happens.

5. I cannot live without this person

You can! I’m not discarding the difficulties that come with it, but you can live without a person, for sure. Because, we human beings can adapt very well. Given any surroundings, we can totally adapt.

6. I know what I’m doing

Of course, you do! Most of them are blinded by this thought. They think what they’re doing is what they ought to do.

These are some of the lies that we tell ourselves every day. How many of these did you tell yourself today?

You block your dreams when you allow your fear to grow bigger than your faith.